I totally get where you’re coming from. It’s actually pretty normal to feel turned on by thoughts or experiences you’d never act on. A lot of people have fantasies that are just for fun and don’t reflect what they want to do in real life.

Think of it this way: our minds can wander to all sorts of scenarios, and it’s a way to explore our feelings without any real-life consequences. Just because something excites you in your head doesn’t mean you have to do it. It’s all part of figuring out what turns you on.

Honestly, it’s kind of common to have those conflicting feelings. It’s like, you can enjoy the fantasy while still knowing it’s not for you. So don’t stress too much about it! As long as you’re comfortable with it and it doesn’t bother you, you’re likely just experiencing a normal part of being human.